Automatic merge from submit-queue. If you want to cherry-pick this change to another branch, please follow the instructions <a href="https://github.com/kubernetes/community/blob/master/contributors/devel/cherry-picks.md">here</a>.
Update bazelbuild/rules_go, kubernetes/repo-infra, and gazelle dependencies
**What this PR does / why we need it**: updates our bazelbuild/rules_go dependency in order to bump everything to go1.9.4. I'm separating this effort into two separate PRs, since updating rules_go requires a large cleanup, removing an attribute from most build rules.
**Release note**:
```release-note
NONE
```
Kubernetes-commit: 96ec3187180b9c1d722756b3ea0984ebe65424dc
Automatic merge from submit-queue (batch tested with PRs 58412, 56132, 58506, 58542, 58394). If you want to cherry-pick this change to another branch, please follow the instructions <a href="https://github.com/kubernetes/community/blob/master/contributors/devel/cherry-picks.md">here</a>.
don't stop informer delivery on error
If an informer delivery fails today, we stop delivering to it entirely. The pull updates the code to skip that particular notification, delay, and continue delivery with the next time.
/assign derekwaynecarr
/assign ncdc
/assign ash2k
@derekwaynecarr This would change the "the controller isn't doing anything?!" to "the controller missed my (individual) resource!"
```release-note
NONE
```
Kubernetes-commit: 71426ba59fd4a37e5da7deac6298ab33101bb5b6
